There are times when things seem to be out of ones control, there looms a sense of helplessness and of things not working out. Despite the best of intentions, we don't get the intended results. During such times we need to do three things right:
A. Evaluate - a complete analysis of why things are not falling in the desired order. What is working out and what is not by delving into the details. This review needs to evaluate everything - the feasibility of the set targets, the modus operandi to achieve them and of the returns that we're envisioned. A complete what was to be and what has been retrospective analysis. This would help in understanding the necessary steps that need to be taken, the modifications that are necessary both in terms of adding, substituting or eliminating certain aspects involved in the equation.
B. Stick to the basics - It becomes so important to not overawed and get into a panic mode. Sincerity and consistency always lead to more sustainable, satisfying results than sudden impulsive actions. One needs to keep doing the basic things right. This includes taking care of ones health, sticking to the balanced routine and of setting boundaries and short term targets to be achieved. This would mean that even if the mountaintop may not be clear, one needs to keep taking cautious steps in the direction that was chosen. There is only one way and it is to the top. No point in being suddenly disillusioned, waste time in taking a hiatus and try to work things out, get that divine clarity through inaction. Keep moving, as so does life.
C. Know and stick to the ultimate goal - All of us are wired differently and want something different from our life. We all have a vision of where we want to see ourselves in the normal curve of life. What ever parameter we set for ourselves whether through introspection, comparison or a mix of both, we need to know what truly is what we would like to achieve and see ourselves as. And if it's an inner voice that we keep hearing all the time, then no matter how much digression may happen, in the most quiet of times we would always keep coming back to the same. Believing that we know and identify our existence with something (not something like buying a car, or a house), but with something more meaningful and macro, we need to stick to it. This is what is our dream, our ultimate calling and aim in life. Resilience is the key.
A mix of micro analysis along with sticking to the basics mixed with complete determination to do what we set out to do are essential and key factors for success in life.
A. Evaluate - a complete analysis of why things are not falling in the desired order. What is working out and what is not by delving into the details. This review needs to evaluate everything - the feasibility of the set targets, the modus operandi to achieve them and of the returns that we're envisioned. A complete what was to be and what has been retrospective analysis. This would help in understanding the necessary steps that need to be taken, the modifications that are necessary both in terms of adding, substituting or eliminating certain aspects involved in the equation.
B. Stick to the basics - It becomes so important to not overawed and get into a panic mode. Sincerity and consistency always lead to more sustainable, satisfying results than sudden impulsive actions. One needs to keep doing the basic things right. This includes taking care of ones health, sticking to the balanced routine and of setting boundaries and short term targets to be achieved. This would mean that even if the mountaintop may not be clear, one needs to keep taking cautious steps in the direction that was chosen. There is only one way and it is to the top. No point in being suddenly disillusioned, waste time in taking a hiatus and try to work things out, get that divine clarity through inaction. Keep moving, as so does life.
C. Know and stick to the ultimate goal - All of us are wired differently and want something different from our life. We all have a vision of where we want to see ourselves in the normal curve of life. What ever parameter we set for ourselves whether through introspection, comparison or a mix of both, we need to know what truly is what we would like to achieve and see ourselves as. And if it's an inner voice that we keep hearing all the time, then no matter how much digression may happen, in the most quiet of times we would always keep coming back to the same. Believing that we know and identify our existence with something (not something like buying a car, or a house), but with something more meaningful and macro, we need to stick to it. This is what is our dream, our ultimate calling and aim in life. Resilience is the key.
A mix of micro analysis along with sticking to the basics mixed with complete determination to do what we set out to do are essential and key factors for success in life.
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